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Independence Day – How Do You Find Freedom?

We are among the first generations, to see the average person live in ease. Recent generations grew up seeing families in big houses with nice furniture taking great vacations. Young people don’t remember their parents’ struggle through new Marriages and tight incomes. They didn’t watch their parents confront one another, struggle, debate, disagree, get angry, calm …

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When Your Kids Go With Their Dad – How to Make the Most of Time Alone

Life is not fair. No one knows this more than an abandoned spouse forced to hand over her children…except maybe the children forced to shuffle between two households and unnaturally choose between two parents. No matter how unjust no fault divorce and our court systems are, forced visitation is a reality for many, so, whether …

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My Kids Want Dad. Now What? 5 Keys to Understanding Your Child’s View of Child Visitation

Every child needs a Daddy. Maybe that should be the end of this post. Every child needs a Daddy. It’s worth repeating, but what do you do when the father of your children is not the Daddy you hoped he’d be or that children deserve? Studies show loving, present fathers make a world of difference. Children of fathers who …

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Where Does Self Worth Come From?

Where does your self worth come from? Society deems the individual as supreme. It tells us that is good to be popular and to be popular you should dress sexier, have a degree from a pricey university, a house in a well to do neighborhood, and a certain number of likes on social media. We value things that constantly change and measure ourselves against …

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Where Was God in My Divorce?

Where is God when life goes wrong? Where is Jesus when what we want is in line with God’s plan and life still falls apart. Maybe you’re suffering from betrayal, abandonment, and divorce and are wondering why God allowed it to happen. Maybe you’re stuck feeling abandoned by your husband and by God. Maybe you’re thinking that, if God hates divorce …

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How Do I Deal with My Pain?

Pain is inevitable. At some point, each of us will feel pain. Some will experience child abuse. Others will experience spousal abandonment or the death of a loved one. Still others will experience a debilitating disease, tragic accident, prolonged unemployment, or financial ruin. In the midst of suffering, we might be quick to compare our pain to another’s. It’s easy to point …

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